I haven't ranted in a while...
You know I love looking out for the ladies when it comes to relationships.
With that being said, ladies never enter into any new relationship when there is residual love dust from a previous relationship.
You never truly stop loving someone just because it's over. Time heals all wounds. When it's over, it needs to truly be over in your heart and in your mind. Never allow the past to handcuff your future and your progress. He is an Ex for a reason.
Those good times never outweighed the bad ones. So stop reminiscing on those times because they will keep you blinded from all the bad he has done.
Your heart should be your priority. If he isn't touching your heart in ways that make you melt, or that allows the queen in you to shine, then he's definitely not the one...
I understand that what one woman wants from a relationship is different than what another woman wants. However, I do believe that being loved the way you want to be should be as important to you as breathing God's air.
Choose him wisely, looks, empty words, good sex, and his money are not acceptable reasons to pick him.
His integrity, character, willingness to allow you to be you without trying to change you (compliment each other) his understanding of you meaning during the courtship you talked about important things in your life past and present.
We've all been conditioned to accept what we get from relationships and what we give to relationships.
CHANGE THAT CONDITION!!!
You know deep down inside what things make you happy. Bring those things to the surface and bury the dead things that have weighed you down.
I love you all...
Do better, accept better, live better and love better!
Sweep up the dust from the past and throw it away