Thursday, July 3, 2014
Tuesday, July 1, 2014
My question is who determines this?
My answer is as follows: in reference to the meme, the man or woman involved in this relationship have to determine this. If his definition of a good woman is based on who she is completely is one thing, however,he may separate parts of her and that may give him his definition of whether she's good or not.
It could be a younger man that may think that just because the sex was good she may feel she deserves special treatment. So he may not treat her the way she feels she should be.
And that may not be close to what she's thinking.
You may think you're a good person with values and morals, but most people want more. They want someone they can grow with and someone that isn't satisfied by the status quo. The same routine. No goals, no desire to do better, conceded that they are who they're gonna be and this is their destiny. No one should want that, and having morals and values are great, but you will get what you present.
Defining what a good man or good woman is an individual interpretation. What's good for me may not be for someone else.
Sunday, June 29, 2014
It's going to start out as 30 minute show. Still working the kinks out. And eventually it will be an hour long show dedicated to relationships topics. From an evolved man's perspective, Mine.
For those of you that have had the opportunity to talk to me, know that I love relationships progress.
For those of you that haven't had the chance to talk to me, this will be an experience you will want to share with others.
This is an exciting time for me. It is one step closer to my goals being accomplished. If I can help one couple or someone's potential mate see another point of view, and ultimately bring a closeness to their relationship or prospective relationship, and give an encouraging word to step away from an unhealthy relationship, I will have accomplished my goal.
So stay tuned... More info about topic submissions, call in questions, recorded interviews, and booking info. I'm available for small group discussions.
I'm looking for a some guest co-hosts. I will be recording shows on location when I travel. So if you ladies are interested in co hosting or being a guest on my show, leave a message.
FYI, this is not a show to bash men. It's to give ladies some insight on men, and explain the reasons why we function the way we do.
I look forward to sharing and being a small part of your lives.
Love you, and God Bless you
Friday, May 23, 2014
There are a few things that are bothering me...And Yes! It has to do with women and men forcing relationships that are volatile.
Here's the scenario:
A lady in her thirties is getting married.... Hip, hip, hooray!!!!
She is controlling, threatening and believes that because she the bread winner and feels she should call the shots. Crazy! Her man is a weak one, Because he allows her to talk to him any kind of way. He sits there and takes it.
She calls him weak, and he says nothing. He doesn't want to upset her so he does whatever she says. Yet, they still want to marry each other. Crazy!
They plan the wedding... Wait! She plans the wedding, he just needs to show up. He's careless with money, and he omits. Not lie, but similar. (That behavior is not good. Omission is concealing truth, by not saying anything. In a relationship, that can't happen).
Her previous boyfriend was abusive, and not saying she wasn't a victim, but the way she talks to her future husband may have been the reason her ex hit her. Ladies, and Gentleman you have No right to put your hands on your mate, so if you are aggressive and he or she fights back and knocks you down, it's self defense. I would never put my hands on any woman, but I won't be with a woman that provokes bad intentions. Some women feel that if he's not fighting back, he's weak or doesn't love her enough to hit back. Again CRAZY!!!!
Well the reason for my rant:
Ladies, I he's not performing or being the man that you want him to be, you have to move on or accept who he is (which is the reason why men courting women works more often than not. He's showing you who he is. And when he isn't, you get frustrated.
Oh and another thing, women don't force your child or children on your mate, especially if he has no kids of his own. He may not know how to interact, and you forcing him to do that WILL cause problems. You don't want your child with someone you have to force to play with or bond with do you? So stop that psycho behavior. He's gonna do what he feels he should, stop forcing him to do things.
And you wonder why you have difficulty in relationships. You can't fix anyone but yourself. You can try to encourage, inspire, motivate, but if he's not responding you can't make him.
I'm gonna write a book,
Titled: Women do the darnedest things
Fix yourself before you even think about trying to fix someone else. Because when you put all your energy into fixing him, you may be fixing him for the next lady!
Sunday, May 18, 2014
Think about this for a sec, what if the things you do to your mate affected someone that is near and dear to you? Not just anybody. Someone that if something bad was to happen to them you'd be a wreck.
Would you still continue the behavior?
Example: men if you cheated on your wife or fiancée, and your daughter, mom or sister that are happily married got cheated on as a result of your action would you stop?
Or are you so selfish that your answer to everything is, "you live your life and I live mine".
I encourage men and women to do better in life and in love, you never know who's paying attention to you and your behavior.